<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>The Carnely journal: keep the best, and share it</title><description>A few pages, written without haste: how to choose the best of your moments, write it down simply, and share it with your circle. At any age.</description><link>https://carnely.com/</link><language>en</language><item><title>Quitting social media without losing touch</title><link>https://carnely.com/en/journal/quitting-social-media-without-losing-touch/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://carnely.com/en/journal/quitting-social-media-without-losing-touch/</guid><description>Leaving Instagram or Facebook without losing the people who matter: what quitting really changes, and where to put the urge to share that remains.</description><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>transmission</category></item><item><title>What is a memory, really?</title><link>https://carnely.com/en/journal/what-is-a-memory/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://carnely.com/en/journal/what-is-a-memory/</guid><description>Twenty thousand photos are not twenty thousand memories. A memory is a moment chosen, rebuilt and retold: here is what sets it apart from a stored image.</description><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>transmission</category></item><item><title>Declutter your photos: keep what matters</title><link>https://carnely.com/en/journal/declutter-your-photos/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://carnely.com/en/journal/declutter-your-photos/</guid><description>Thousands of photos on your phone and none that stand out. Decluttering is not filing: here is how to choose the images that matter, one moment at a time.</description><pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>transmission</category></item><item><title>An alternative to the family WhatsApp group: stepping out of the feed</title><link>https://carnely.com/en/journal/family-whatsapp-group-alternative/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://carnely.com/en/journal/family-whatsapp-group-alternative/</guid><description>The family WhatsApp group promises to keep everyone close. In practice, it loses memories in the scroll. Here&apos;s another way to share, without a feed.</description><pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>transmission</category></item><item><title>Staying in touch with parents long distance, beyond the phone call</title><link>https://carnely.com/en/journal/staying-in-touch-with-parents-long-distance/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://carnely.com/en/journal/staying-in-touch-with-parents-long-distance/</guid><description>You live far from your parents and the Sunday calls quietly thin out. Here&apos;s another way to keep the thread, through what you leave rather than what you say.</description><pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>transmission</category></item><item><title>The first month after they leave: when your child moves abroad</title><link>https://carnely.com/en/journal/when-your-child-moves-abroad/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://carnely.com/en/journal/when-your-child-moves-abroad/</guid><description>The move is done, the early calls are logistical. Here is what you can put down in that first month, without waiting for a new rhythm to settle on its own.</description><pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>transmission</category></item><item><title>Sharing memories with family abroad</title><link>https://carnely.com/en/journal/sharing-memories-with-family-abroad/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://carnely.com/en/journal/sharing-memories-with-family-abroad/</guid><description>Your children or grandchildren live far away, sometimes on another continent. 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Here is how to attach three lines to it the same evening, and turn a scattered image into a memory that lasts.</description><pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>transmission</category></item><item><title>Sharing your childhood with your children, without writing a memoir</title><link>https://carnely.com/en/journal/sharing-your-childhood-with-your-children/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://carnely.com/en/journal/sharing-your-childhood-with-your-children/</guid><description>How to set down for your children what it actually felt like to be a child in your time: the ordinary days, the first times, the figures around you, at your own pace.</description><pubDate>Sat, 23 May 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>transmission</category></item><item><title>How to start writing your life story: a gesture, not a project</title><link>https://carnely.com/en/journal/how-to-start-writing-your-life-story/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://carnely.com/en/journal/how-to-start-writing-your-life-story/</guid><description>You want to write your life story but the blank page stops you. Here&apos;s how to begin tonight, with no plan, no chronology, and no book project to worry about.</description><pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>transmission</category></item><item><title>Writing where you come from: your village, your house, your people</title><link>https://carnely.com/en/journal/writing-where-you-come-from/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://carnely.com/en/journal/writing-where-you-come-from/</guid><description>How to write where you come from without turning it into genealogy: start from what comes back when you close your eyes, the place, the people, the gestures, the sounds.</description><pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>transmission</category></item><item><title>Same place every summer: writing thirty years of returning</title><link>https://carnely.com/en/journal/same-place-every-summer/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://carnely.com/en/journal/same-place-every-summer/</guid><description>The place you return to every summer holds more than a memory. Here is how to write it down before the landscape, the faces and the habits start to blur.</description><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>rituels</category></item><item><title>Passing down a family garden: writing the gestures so they hold</title><link>https://carnely.com/en/journal/passing-down-a-family-garden/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://carnely.com/en/journal/passing-down-a-family-garden/</guid><description>A family garden is more than a piece of land. It is a calendar, learned gestures, chosen varieties. 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